"Weakness is not your weakness.
You are what you grow into
You're not what you were"
Jon Gomm- Passionflower
when you re-read a book and realize you skipped over an important sentence the first time you read it
if i ever misgender you or use slang (bro, man, gurl, dude) that makes you feel even slightly uncomfortable please tell me because your gender identity and comfort is more important than any word i may use to refer to you